Absolutely a TOP RCI Trader still, 3hrs left on eBay $97

[Glitter Brunello Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close Glitter Brunello]

I love you all !!!

[tonyg Goomba & Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close tonyg]

Not sure what that means but I have one to sell but not at that price.

So is there a big upfront fee or is this just a free ad for you ?

[Spence Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close Spence]

So is there a big upfront fee or is this just a free ad for you ?

No, but they charge $ 249 a year.

[ArtsieAng Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close ArtsieAng]

It appears that way.
I have some explaining to do.
My birthday is this week......
EEEKKKK....

[ArtsieAng Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close ArtsieAng]

And here all I bought myself for my B-day were new PJ's....

Too funny!

[ArtsieAng Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close ArtsieAng]

Thanks, I think.
Talk about not doing due diligence, I haven't even read a review!
Spence, you are very persuasive!

That, or you're very easy.

[happymum Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close happymum]

Actually impulsive was the word I was thinking of!

[MargeS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MargeS]

Y'all are dangerous people!

[GrayFal Silver Contributor and supermoderator Find all posts View Profile Close GrayFal]

R u enabling again???

Y'all are dangerous people!

This is what I mean Spence - you dangle these goodies in front of us and we HAVE to just grab them....for the truly addicted, we just CAN NOT resist

[tonyg Goomba & Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close tonyg]

I think I'm cured as I wasn't even tempted to look.

[djyamyam Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close djyamyam]

I think I'm cured as I wasn't even tempted to look.

The sad thing is that I didn't even need to look. I knew which one it was based on some of the references. AND, this one has been auctioned twice previously without any takers. So while I'm on the wagon, I'm by no means cured as I keep the temptation close at hand.

Looks like they got a sucker (oops, I mean buyer ) this time. HM, good for you. Happy Bday

[jackio Gold Contributor Find all posts View Profile Close jackio]

Actually impulsive was the word I was thinking of!

You go girl! Happy Birthday!

[GrayFal Silver Contributor and supermoderator Find all posts View Profile Close GrayFal]

R u enabling again???

Here is a better description.....

Drug and Alcohol Information
- Enabling -

Overview
When family, friends, and associates of a chemically dependent individual allow that individual to continue the addiction to alcohol or drugs, their behavior is called enabling. When repeated, enabling behaviors become ingrained in the chemically dependent person's family, job, or social structures.

Meaning Well: The Origins of Enabling
We often begin enabling in an attempt to be kind and helpful. For example, we may wake someone so they are not late to work. By doing so, we help them avoid the consequences of oversleeping because they were using or drinking late into the night before. We loan addicts money, often over and over again, and we are surprised when they use it to buy more drugs or alcohol.

Enablers may have their own system of denial that is fed by the lies and deceptions addicts use to cover up their using.


The Effects of Enabling
As enabling behaviors become routine, we end up feeling frustrated, ineffectual, and angry. Often, we continue to enable because we don't want to appear mean or unreasonable. Enabling behaviors directly and indirectly support the vicious cycle of never-ending problems and pain of addiction. When we stop enabling, when we stop helping and covering up for the addict, we allow the addict to experience the consequences of their out-of-control behavior. We no longer wake them up, loan them money, or bail them out of jail. We stop shielding them from the consequences of their behaviors.

[Spence Super Moderator Find all posts View Profile Close Spence]

Here is a better description.....

Drug and Alcohol Information
- Enabling -

Overview
When family, friends, and associates of a chemically dependent individual allow that individual to continue the addiction to alcohol or drugs, their behavior is called enabling. When repeated, enabling behaviors become ingrained in the chemically dependent person's family, job, or social structures.

Meaning Well: The Origins of Enabling
We often begin enabling in an attempt to be kind and helpful. For example, we may wake someone so they are not late to work. By doing so, we help them avoid the consequences of oversleeping because they were using or drinking late into the night before. We loan addicts money, often over and over again, and we are surprised when they use it to buy more drugs or alcohol.

Enablers may have their own system of denial that is fed by the lies and deceptions addicts use to cover up their using.


The Effects of Enabling
As enabling behaviors become routine, we end up feeling frustrated, ineffectual, and angry. Often, we continue to enable because we don't want to appear mean or unreasonable. Enabling behaviors directly and indirectly support the vicious cycle of never-ending problems and pain of addiction. When we stop enabling, when we stop helping and covering up for the addict, we allow the addict to experience the consequences of their out-of-control behavior. We no longer wake them up, loan them money, or bail them out of jail. We stop shielding them from the consequences of their behaviors.

OMG, what have I done?

[Holly Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Holly]

Actually, I CAN QUIT ANYTIME I WANT TO!!!!

I just don't want to!