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    Yesterday I said a blurb about how good things have been going since we got back from Florida, how some long-running problems have fallen into place. I should know better than to violate my own rule against tacking too wide, getting off the even keel.

    Our Great Aunt and Great Uncle live near us. Their kids and their families are all in Houston, so we are their local kids. They have been together for around 60 years. She has dementia and cannot be left alone, so he has given up the things he loves to take care of her the last few years.

    He is my golfing buddy (when Jenny can take care of her) and the bulwark from our hateful neighbors. His is 81, fit, and a perpetual smart-ass. Everyone in Branson knows him and, as Rapmarks knows, they have permanent seats in Mickey Gilley's VIP row. They come out several times a week.

    This week he has been having some complications from recent surgery and we have been taking him to the hospital. Because my MIL (Great Aunt's niece) is here, last night he called an ambulance (instead of us) to take him to the ER about 6:00. We went to be with her.

    They decided to admit him for observation, to get his fluids back up, so we all said our goodbyes and left about 9:30. We took our GA home with us and called one of their kids on the way.

    Not long after we got home another of their kids called to say the hospital had called to say he had died. He was sitting up, telling jokes and laughing with a nurse when he went.

    We cannot tell our GA, not until their kids get here, probably late today. I don't know how long we can keep her occupied because every few minutes she asks where the old $%$*^$ is and goes looking for him.
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    I wrote the above earlier today, but could not get it posted here. We have been with our GA all day and she is still wondering where he is, thinking he's at the golf course or outside.

    I called Mickey Gilley this afternoon, in Houston, and he had already heard. Our GU was that type of guy.

    Their kids are on the way and another Great Niece/Nephew couple is here.
    RCI Member Since 24-Aug-1989/150-plus Exchanges***THE TIMESHARE GRIM REAPER~~~Exchanging/Searching/SW Florida/MO/AR/IA/Consumer Advocacy/Estate Planning/Sports/Boating/Fishing/Golf/Lake-living/Retirement****Sometimes ya just gotta be a dick

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    Sorry to hear about your Great Uncle - these days 81 is young. I am sure you will miss your golf games with him. Our prayers are with you and his family. Hope his children can come up with a good solution for their Mother and where she will stay, etc. That is a sad situation.

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    • #3
      Sorry to hear your sad news. My prayers are with you and the family!






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      • #4
        We are so sad to hear this and so glad we did have the pleasure of meeting him. He was a gentleman and such a great husband. You must be feeling terrible. Poor Annie, it is so sad to think about.

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        • #5
          Sorry to hear about your Uncle. He sounded like a character. ( like my mom before she got so ill) YOu will have wonderful memories. God Bless. Shaggy

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          • #6
            So sorry to hear of your loss. What brought tears to my eyes was to know that he was laughing and talking when he went - no fear there. It is the ones who are left that suffer - hope your GA is okay!

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            • #7
              I'm so very sorry, Jim.

              Cindy

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              • #8
                that is sad, but hopefully your family can deal with it

                As a person who has an 89 yr old mother living at her home, and me out-of-state.. it is not easy to keep tabs on the elderly. Thank God, he did not suffer, and his wife still knows who he IS. I am sure you will come out of this with a good feeling, as (you know he did not suffer) and all you must do is convince the dementia patient of that. I think that a good visit with positive thoughts and memories of the good times.. will do that...

                Believe me, I am with you on this.. we go to Mass. from Snowy Upstate NY this coming Friday to make sure things are OK with my MOM.. she is not really a candidate for a home... yet, but it is just down the road... am patietntly waiting for the new Medicare Law to come into effect (in Mass.) that the next door neighbor--- a niece can get pd. by Medicare to come in and care somewhat for her (to help aleiviate the horrible Medicare funds to the Nursing Homes...crisis, as it stands now.)
                Good luck.. BTW did you see Katie Couric last nite about the Tampa, Fla. solution... BEV
                Beverly M. Hook
                Pittsford, N. Y.

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                • #9
                  No. What did I miss?

                  Originally posted by bev View Post
                  BTW did you see Katie Couric last nite about the Tampa, Fla. solution... BEV
                  RCI Member Since 24-Aug-1989/150-plus Exchanges***THE TIMESHARE GRIM REAPER~~~Exchanging/Searching/SW Florida/MO/AR/IA/Consumer Advocacy/Estate Planning/Sports/Boating/Fishing/Golf/Lake-living/Retirement****Sometimes ya just gotta be a dick

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