Dustin Hoffman tells it like it is

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http://www.upworthy.com/dustin-hoffm...ienced-3?c=gt1

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lovely man

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Thank you for posting this. I actually did something I do not normally do and re-shared this own my own wall because I thought it was so important. However, I would only add that this goes both ways, and women can do the same thing to men.

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Thank you for posting this. I actually did something I do not normally do and re-shared this own my own wall because I thought it was so important. However, I would only add that this goes both ways, and women can do the same thing to men.

Women do the same thing to one another. I don't think he was speaking only to men, at least I didn't hear it that way.
I agree that some women do the same thing to men, but it seems to me that the men's bar is a lot lower.

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I would definitely agree that men are more prone to judging women then women are of men. We unfortunately do have a tendency to be that shallow. The media does tend to have a different perception and tendency to portray what the typical woman should look like though.

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I would definitely agree that men are more prone to judging women then women are of men. We unfortunately do have a tendency to be that shallow. The media does tend to have a different perception and tendency to portray what the typical woman should look like though.

Yes, exactly. And men are "allowed" to be much less attractive before people ignore, dismiss, or think less of them.