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  • A Memorial to Kelly (long)

    Sorry this is so long...but it helped me to talk about it.

    When we first saw her, she was sitting in a big wire crate outside, all shiny and clean, ears perked up, tail wagging, excited that someone was coming. She was 7 months old and had been raised and trained to be a show dog. She had great confirmation and would have done well in the ring, but for a flaw…. She had a cowlick down her nose that a judge (what do they know?) would disqualify her from the ring for that.

    A week or two before, I had called Carol, our friend, Lab breeder and Lab club president and told her we were looking for a female, black Lab pup. She said she didn’t have any puppies, but did have a 7 month old female that she couldn’t show. Gerry said he did not want a 7 month old pup, but in a later call, wrote down the directions to Carol’s house. Just before Labor Day in 1994 we drove to Western Indiana to “just look” at this dog. Well, we fell in love at first sight…aren’t all puppies just the cutest thing?

    We already had a yellow Lab, Jodi, who was born in our bedroom 9 years before to her Mom, Samantha (6 pups, 5 female, 1 male and only one yellow female). So we knew and love our Labs. The first one was an older male, Sam, who our son brought home from the Animal Shelter in 1974. I thought I had walked into an Angus bull when I opened the door. Little did I know how ‘old Sam’ would change me from an ‘I’m afraid of dogs’ person to a dog lover, or how we could never live without another Lab around the house.

    Carol showed us her new house and then let Kelly out of the kennel. Kelly immediately ran over to the big kennel where her Mom and sisters and other kennel mates lived and ran passed them as if to say “see, I AM out…I AM free” We watched her run, with ears flapping, tail wagging and coming to us to greet us.

    Our arrangement with Carol was: we could bring her back any time if it didn’t work out, or keep her for a month and then she would send us all the necessary papers, AND we would agree NOT to breed her because of her defect would not be passed on. I told her I had been there, done that, and had worked with a Vet for a year and had seen too many abused, neglected, abandoned pets come in.

    We put Kelly in the ‘dog house on wheels’ (truck w/ cap) and left the pass through windows open, and, you guessed it…she stuck her head through there and the next thing you know she is in my lap snuggling.

    We got her home and Jodi sort of ignored her for a while, but soon warmed up and now we had two Labs running around the house and yard (fenced in) playing and wrestling and eating together and sleeping together. The month flew by, and we went to the Lab club meeting where we knew ‘Grandma’ Carol would be, so Kelly could tell her good by. We told Carol how great Kelly and Jodi got along and we were keeping her. She started to leave and I called to her and asked how much do you want for her? She turned and said, ‘She’s yours, I know she’ll have a good home’. What a marvelous gift we got that night.

    Kelly was lovable, quiet…oh, she had her rowdy times and at times she and Jodi would roar around the house and I would say, ‘do you girls want to go out and roar’ and they would run to the back door and I’d let them out. They would get in our fenced yard and literally roar around it, leaping across the small deck (almost clearing it), smash into the fence and start off again.

    Kelly went to training school and became a very well behaved and socially acceptable member of society. She was loved by every one. And she grieved when we had to put Jodi down in 2000 at the age of 15. Then Kelly became Queen of the house, our family….and neighborhood.

    Kelly made her first trip to Florida in April of 2000, so we could help our human daughter move into her new home. She rode in the back seat with our son Dave, (when he wasn’t driving) and slept with Dave at night. She left her black hair all over Peg’s friends house (he had almost white carpet!) and she had a ball.

    Her second trip down was in December of 2000 when she had to live with Peg and Dave (daughter & son) while lived in a ‘no pets allowed rental home) We got to see her every week end and we even sneak her in with us a couple of week ends. She got to go to Key West to see her other human sister Patty and hear noises she had never heard before and live with Patty’s two cats! A few snarls and hisses came and went, but they ‘tolerated’ one another.

    Her third trip to Florida was in June of 2000 when we moved to Florida. I drove the car and Gerry drove his pick up. I tried many times to get Kelly in the car, but she went right to Gerry and ‘her’ pick up. Of course I knew why she really went with him…not because they were best buds, not because they had hunted together, not because he loved walking her, but because he had SNACKS!

    She settled in our rental very well and she came with Gerry to the house site where we were building our home. She went every time, because the workers always had food for her. Oh, did I fail to mention she was part ‘chow hound’? She adapted very well and the people at the country club where we were renting soon learned to love her, for the most part. Then we moved to our new home. She really liked that. She could lay in the lanai and watch the birds and the water, wander around and had no traffic to worry about. Kelly loved everyone and everyone loved her. When she stayed with Peg and Dave in their ‘gated’ community no one minded that Kelly didn’t have a leash…they loved her too.

    As she aged, she got arthritis and it got worse and she started limping, and I had X-rays done this past Monday (Oct. 23) and the results were not good. We brought her home Monday night with pain pills. Kelly came into the computer room and lay down and looked up to me as if to say “Mom, I’m sick and I am ready to go.” I told her, “yes, Kelly, I know and tomorrow we will take you and let you go”. I called our son to come out Tuesday after work and the three of us took Kelly to the Vet’s. We had our time with her and we were with her at the end. And we know that Kelly is waiting for us at the Rainbow Bridge and she had Jodi to play with and she has met Sammy and Sam and little Pippi and we will miss her.

    RIP Kelly (Cedar Hill Reach for the Sky) 1/25/1994—10/24/2006

  • #2
    JoAnn it sound like Kelly had a wonderful life with you and all her family members.

    I m sorry for your loss.
    Lawren
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    There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse.
    - Rolf Kopfle

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    • #3
      JoAnn I am so sorry for your loss, but I am very glad that you were blessed by both Jodi and Kelly. {{{{{hugs}}}}}
      Jacki

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      • #4
        It is funny how an animal becomes part of our family... We treat them as children and then adolescents, but they never really become adults. They share their appreciation with us in so many ways and we never forget the many fond memories that we have with them.

        Thanks for sharing your story!

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        • #5
          JoAnn,

          I'm so sorry to hear about Kelly. We really do fall in love with our pets. They become part of our family, and it is painful when it is time for them to leave us.

          You gave Kelly a wonderful life, and in return, she gave you her unconditional love.....I feel for you, and your family.
          Angela

          If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

          BTW, I'm still keeping track of how many times you annoy me.

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          • #6
            JoAnn, I am so sorry to hear about your lose of your beloved pet, Kelly. It is so hard to give them up but what a relief to know that they are no longer in pain. Having met you I know that Kelly had the best life possible, full of love.I don't have to tell you that the pain will ease /and the poem you sent me , The Rainbow Bridge , helped me with Silver. She was lucky to have you & Gerry as her family just as you were lucky to have her. Hugs, Shaggy

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            • #7
              I know how you are feeling. Go out and get another pet. It will help take your mind off of Kelly.
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              • #8
                Thanks to all of you for your words of comfort. It really helped me to write my tribute to Kelly. It gets easier each day, but I miss seeing her laying upside down on the couch watching me and wagging her tail.

                As for getting another Lab...we did that a year and a half ago when we drove up to South Dakota and picked out a little yellow female from a litter of 13! Her name is Dakota (wonder why ) Or Kota or "the wild child" and DH has hunted with her Mom and Dad. She has already proved to be a great hunting dog with a whole lot of energy. Almost too much for 2 over -70 year olds. But she is keeping us younger because we have to walk her! Kota was very sad yesterday, but seems to be perking up just a little.

                Kelly will be returning home in a couple of weeks, where her ashes will sit on the table next to her buddy, Jodi, who left us 6 years ago. I know that Kelly is at "The Rainbow Bridge" playing with all our 4 legged buddies: Pippi, a little cock a poo; Sam, our first Lab; Samantha who gave us 6 puppies; Jodi who was one of those pups and lived to be almost 15; and now Kelly. And we'll be with them someday too.

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                • #9
                  Joann, I read your story OY and feel so sad for you. It is so hard to lose a beloved pet as they are such beautiful creatures and so loyal too, especially a dog. It will get easier over time but you will never forget her but the good memories will wipe out the sorrow and hurt you feel now eventually. We have been there too many times already so know exactly how you feel.

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                  • #10
                    From Yesterday's Boston Globe

                    I was thinking of you when I read this in yesterday's Boston Globe. It's a good read and I'm thinking of you (one of my Beagles is terminally ill now).




                    EILEEN MCNAMARA
                    One family's best friend
                    By Eileen McNamara, Globe Columnist | October 25, 2006

                    We can be forgiven for thinking that nothing could kill our dog.

                    In pursuit of a squirrel, he once ran across the road and smack into the side of a moving truck. The truck never knew what hit it.

                    In pursuit of a chipmunk, he fell 15 feet off a lakeside deck and down a steep embankment. He shook off the plunge.

                    Fritz was a mini-Schnauzer with a mountain goat's constitution. He had diabetes and Cushing's disease, high cholesterol and a low white-cell count. He survived pancreatitis the Thanksgiving he ate the cheesecake; he aced surgeries for stones in his bladder and cataracts in his eyes.

                    We thought the rogue infection that laid him low last weekend might slow his step; we never dreamed it could stop his heart.

                    That's the way it is with dogs. Their medical files grow thicker as our hair grows thinner, but we never quite accept the cosmic unfairness of the disparity between human and canine life spans. Fritz was 12, a puppy in our eyes only.

                    It was never clear who was in charge of whom while we shared the same household. Fritz carried the leash in his mouth to the back door when he wanted to walk us. He upended his empty bowl on the kitchen floor if some distraction had delayed the dinner hour.

                    He dictated our interior décor and our dinner menus: washable slipcovers, rather than raw silk for the living room sofa after the digested cheesecake reappeared on the center cushion; chicken cutlets rather than chicken wings after a bone lodged in his throat, adding a few more pages to that medical file.

                    He loved a party -- all those abandoned appetizer plates -- but he hated dancers. It took all his self-restraint not to bite the exposed ankle of a dancer who refused to be deterred by his insistent bark.

                    He was no sentimentalist, retreating to the master bedroom on St. Patrick's Day at the first strains of "Danny Boy."

                    The only cliché to which Fritz reliably subscribed was his enmity for the postal carrier. No matter how many treats that Connie brought or how many coos she whispered, Fritz would give her the closest approximation of a vicious snarl a 25-pound dog could muster. Connie loved him anyway.

                    He was a lovable crank, eager to flout the rules of the assisted-living facility by striding through the lobby and into the elevator to visit the apartment of the family grandmother who spent most of her disposable income on dog biscuits.

                    Spoiled though he was, Fritz knew he was not the only animal in the animal kingdom.

                    The only moose I ever saw I saw with Fritz. I would have driven right past the swampy field in New Hampshire, had he not stood on his hind legs and pressed his nose against the passenger window. I pulled over and rolled down his window for a better view of the moose and her calf.

                    Fritz, who would bark if a fly crossed his path, stood silent, as awed as I by the sight of those huge, wild creatures just a few feet away from our two-lane highway.

                    I had seen him strike a similar pose the winter before, when we sat in the same car in the same rural backwater watching a herd of deer leap a 7-foot snow bank to cross the road.

                    When they had passed, Fritz turned his head toward me, as if to ask, "Did you see that?"

                    We have not lost our perspective. There is a killing war in Iraq and fatal gun violence in the streets of Boston. Last week, we buried the beloved matriarch of our small suburban neighborhood. Yesterday, this newspaper carried the obituary of a 14-year-old girl.

                    We know there are larger tragedies in this life than losing a dog.

                    We know, too, that losing Fritz is a small, sad ache in the heart of a family that will never see a squirrel or a chipmunk, a cheesecake or a chicken wing in quite the same way.

                    Eileen McNamara is a Globe columnist. She can be reached at mcnamara@globe.com.



                    © Copyright 2006 The New York Times Company

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                    • #11
                      Beags, thank you for sharing that beautiful article. It brought tears and so many memories of all of our Labs and the crazy, wonderful things they did through the years. Since February 1975 to now, we have only spent one month without a Lab in our house. Now we have Kota, so, hopefully, we'll have at least another 10 years of these lovable dogs with us.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by JoAnn View Post
                        Beags, thank you for sharing that beautiful article. It brought tears and so many memories of all of our Labs and the crazy, wonderful things they did through the years. Since February 1975 to now, we have only spent one month without a Lab in our house. Now we have Kota, so, hopefully, we'll have at least another 10 years of these lovable dogs with us.
                        You're welcome.
                        Give some thought to what BigFrank said. When I lost Dixie, I did not want another dog, I just wanted her no other dog would do. Then, the vet called to say that they had rescued a handsome boy Beagle(8 months old) and was I interested ?
                        Again, no. I wanted Dixie back, no other dog would do. But, I felt badly for him and went to visit him while he was recovering from a tib-fib fracture and had been given up by his owner as he could no longer be a show dog (just like Kelly). Well, over the past 12 years I can say that I didn't rescue Scooter, he rescued me.
                        Warmly,
                        Beaglemom

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                        • #13
                          Beags & Frank...you guys missed part of my last two posts...we have Dakota, a 20 month yellow Lab. We drove to South Dakota in May of 2005 to pick her up from a hunting guide/friend of DH. Kota will most likely be our last Lab as DH & I are both in our early-mid 70's and I don't think either one of us will be up to training another one like Kota. Since we got our first Lab in February 1974, we have only had one month without a Lab in our house. (had 7 when Samantha had pups in '85 )

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by JoAnn
                            Beags & Frank...you guys missed part of my last two posts...we have Dakota, a 20 month yellow Lab. We drove to South Dakota in May of 2005 to pick her up from a hunting guide/friend of DH. Kota will most likely be our last Lab as DH & I are both in our early-mid 70's and I don't think either one of us will be up to training another one like Kota. Since we got our first Lab in February 1974, we have only had one month without a Lab in our house. (had 7 when Samantha had pups in '85 )

                            Yes, I did get that part, but was also thinking of Dakota, too. I know that when Scooter goes (he's getting chemo & radiation now - palliative treatment) that Lucy will be lost without her buddy and "partner in crime". Scooter's photo is the photo gallery here. He's taking a nap on the loveseat in my office. Of course, this was the one place that he wasn't allowed up on.
                            But, what worked for me, may not be the best for you, Dakota and family.
                            I'm glad that you have Dakota. It will help soften the blow.
                            Beags

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                            • #15
                              Beags, I agree with what you say, but Kota is such a high energy dog that I would like to have her settle down a little bit more before we think of getting her a 'pal'.

                              If we decide to get a second dog, at this point in our life, I would go for a 'rescued Lab" so we wouldn't have to put up with all the puppy antics.

                              Kota and Kelly were not friends, nor did they play together...I think it was the age difference. Kota was pretty rough on poor old Kelly and Kelly was a very docile dog and never fought back or snarled at Kota (which we wished she would do) EXCEPT when Kota got to close to Kelly's food dish
                              I have noticed a slight change in Kota, but nothing like I saw with Kelly when we put Jodi down. We will just wait and see what happens. But, thanks for the suggestion.

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