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    I'm gonna live forever!

    Spouses Who Fight Live Longer - Yahoo! News

    Based on the participants' anger-coping responses to hypothetical situations, Harburg placed couples into one of four categories: both partners express their anger; the wife expresses anger; the husband communicates anger while the other suppresses; and both the husband and wife brood and suppress their anger.


    The researchers found that 26 couples, meaning 52 individuals, were suppressors in which both partners held in their anger. Twenty-five percent of the suppressors died during the study period compared with about 12 percent for the other remaining couples.


    In 27 percent of the suppressor couples, one member of the couple died during the study period, and in 23 percent of those couples, both died during the study period. That's compared to only 6 percent of couples where both spouses died in the remaining three groups combined. Only 19 percent in the remaining three groups combined saw one partner die during the study period.


    The results held even when other health factors were accounted for, including age, smoking, weight, blood pressure, bronchial problems, breathing and cardiovascular risk.
    Lawren
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    There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse.
    - Rolf Kopfle

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    Not sure how long my wife will live because shes killing me and if I die she won't be able to fight any more.
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    • #3
      Why one is express the other is commuicate? See, man are reasonable

      Jya-Ning
      Jya-Ning

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      • #4
        Expressing anger/hurt/disappointment and other negative emotions releases them. If done in a responsible way, it can be both healthy and beneficial to the relationship. Supressing emotions usually leads to emotional stress which cooks the body up in stress-released biochemicals. Trust me, I know

        Of course, a drum of battery acid works well too

        Pat

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Jya-Ning
          Why one is express the other is commuicate? See, man are reasonable

          Jya-Ning
          I think throwing plates and crystal is a wonderful way to express anger. And it's aerobic!

          You men can "communicate" as much as you want.


          Lawren
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          There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse.
          - Rolf Kopfle

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          • #6
            See, I've actually done that (mostly old computer/electronics parts). I call it "anger management training"

            I think that started when I realized that "things" aren't that important

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            • #7
              Originally posted by camachinist
              See, I've actually done that (mostly old computer/electronics parts). I call it "anger management training"

              I think that started when I realized that "things" aren't that important

              Lawren
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              There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse.
              - Rolf Kopfle

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              • #8
                Yes, my wife looks on with disbelief, but the frustration flows right out of the destruction. Last victim was our CO detector that started beeping during an argument

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                • #9
                  I have found that this works pretty well for general frustrations not spousal..

                  YouTube - 44 Seconds Dedicated To Those Who Hate Their Jobs

                  PS Not throwing at the person you are arguing with gets you bonus points.
                  Lawren
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                  There are many wonderful places in the world, but one of my favourite places is on the back of my horse.
                  - Rolf Kopfle

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by lawren2
                    I'm gonna live forever!



                    and in 23 percent of those couples, both died during the study period.
                    Is that because they killed each other???
                    ~Arlene

                    "The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page."
                    - St. Augustine

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